How Men Drive Good Women Away

If you’re not in a relationship, or not planning to be in one yet, you won’t take this write-up seriously.

However, when you find yourself in a relationship that isn’t going well, that is when you will really understand what this write-up is all about, because most of these mistakes that I’ll mention here are the kind of mistakes that are likely to surface in most men’s relationships with their women,

What is backsliding, or why do men make mistakes in their relationship with women?

Men who haven’t built up enough confidence or haven’t learned how to behave when in a relationship, often make mistakes despite having strong emotions or attractions for their women.

Maybe they only learnt about love and relationships in movies or novels, and never really experienced how to behave while in a relationship. Or maybe their friends advise them to behave in a certain way while with a woman, thus leading them in the wrong direction.

These are mistakes men often make.

1. Telling her your feelings too soon.

Some men do this, thinking that the woman will fall in love with them soon.

A woman who will get attracted to you doesn’t care about what you feel, she only cares about how she feels towards you. You need to give her a reason to fall for you, let her keep wondering, and make yourself mysterious. Allow her to fall in love with you. If you start telling her how you feel, she might lose interest too soon. Is like telling her the last story scene of a great movie and leaving her with nothing to wonder about.

2. Doing everything she wants you to do.

You are trying to give away all your powers thinking that she’ll love you more. This might make her lose respect for you. If she notices that you can do whatever she wants, she can start feeling disgusted towards you, because you’re not maintaining her respect for you.

Women want their man to be the one to hold the power. They won’t respect you if they can manipulate you. They want someone who can take a stand, someone who is confident is attractive.

3. Thinking that money and looks will win her love, instead of attraction.

This is common today. Many men think that their money or looks alone will draw any woman to them.

Money or looks are good, especially when planning a family together, they matter, I know quite well, but we are talking about a relationship here. Most of them will consider your personality, and behaviors first, over just looks or your money, and these traits are the things that will make them stay.

Yes, money and looks will attract girls to you, but if you’re not a fun type or have an attractive vibe, you won’t hold them for long. The right personality trait is important, don’t forget that.

4. Trying so hard to convince her.

Some men think that they can convince a woman who’s not showing interest. However, sometimes they are left with frustration if they couldn’t make the lady feel different. They wish they could get to showcase their best qualities to change her mind, not knowing that they’re already indulging in desperate behavior.

When you give a lady a list of all your achievements or brag about them, just to convince her, you are trying to use logic to win her. You must know that it’s either that she feels something for you or she doesn’t. Because most women don’t care about what you feel towards them. They only care about what they actually feel towards you.

If she is not feeling you, or showing interest, just move on. Don’t waste your time thinking that by waiting you’ll make her change her mind or fall in love with you.

5. Always seeking permission.

This is the same as forfeiting all your powers to her. For instance, you want to hang out with a female colleague, maybe at a wedding function, and then you start seeking your woman’s permission or approval. This is not attractive at all, because they prefer men who can hold the power and do what they want without stooping so low as to beg for permission. Women won’t respect you once they see that you’ll always be seeking approval like a little child.

6. Not seeking advice.

Sometimes, the male ego usually prevents them from taking advice; they don’t want to admit that they need help. If you want to learn about something, you either buy the course or learn about that thing elsewhere to stay aware. Likewise, in dating or relationships, you need to learn from people who have been in it to get some clues on what it’s all about, or to avoid some potential mistakes in your own relationship.

Once you get the education, you’ll feel more confident about yourself, and women would like to check you out. Try seeking help, get yourself on track, and improve your social life.

7. Not knowing what to do.

Women don’t like teaching men how to be a man. They want you to “get it”, they want a man who “gets it” even though they may not know how to explain it to you. But they can recognize a man who knows what to do at all times, a man who can set a date, and when to do it, and when to make a move.

She wants you to notice her when she is giving you signs, or a hint about something, and for you to show interest or respond. Understand when she’s not happy, when to set boundaries, or give her personal space. But unfortunately, some men don’t know what to do or when to do it.

In conclusion.

These are some mistakes men make that drive women away. If you’re a man who is planning to date or to enter a serious relationship, learning from these mistakes will go a long way to grant you success with women.