Strategy II

Many of us see the solution to a problem when it is too late.

I am celibate and I want to remain so till I am married goes with a potential spouse on a date. After two or three dates, the story changed

"Touch me, I want to feel you inside me"

From idealism and principled position to compromise and aggressive instigation.

She did not suddenly fall in love sir; she has seen that you are a potential husband and is looking to secure her spot. She is being strategic.

You on the other hand see it as "She cannot resist me". Once she got to my house, she fell for my romantic touch.

Sir, if you were a pauper she would not react to you that way.You cannot be tactical when she is being strategic.

Strategy beats tactics any day!

To come out on top requires strategy, you must play chess and think ahead of every move she makes. You can eat your cake and have it, when you are strategic. If you are not strategic, you will bake the cake and eat nothing out of it.

A lady sleeps with a broke man and warns him not to spill his seed in her because she does not want to use pills or get pregnant. She slept with him for love.

The same lady sleeps with a rich man who she does not love but has money.

She does everything to get pregnant, even though he is married and wanted nothing permanent to do with her.

Note that everyone is looking out for himself and herself in this life.

Someone is strategizing how to gain advantage over you by taking advantage of any form of weakness in your armour. Your best defense is in self-mastery.

Once you have mastered yourself, you will see things clearly and not become a victim of anybody's agenda.

Why is justice so unjust?

The law says Do Not Steal

We all agree

A man and a woman had sex

The man dumped his seed in a condom

Threw it in the trash can

He left

The woman went to the trash can and STOLE the condom

She then Inseminated herself with the semen and got pregnant

Then she took the man to court asking for child support

Why did the court rule in her favour?

The judge says what the woman did was wicked and unacceptable, but the baby is still the man's responsibility.

If the lady was raped the first thing that she would be required to do was to flush her system and be sure she didn’t get pregnant.

She would also be provided with the option of having an abortion, so that she will not get pregnant against her will.

These options were not made available in this case.

She stole a semen, impregnated herself and maliciously won a huge payday.

That is why justice is so unjust and depending on justice rather than strategize to defend or protect yourself is unacceptable

Justice is rigged against the strong and tilted to empower the weak.

A labourer riding a bicycle hits a businessman driving a car.

He says sorry and is soon on his way.

A businessman driving a car hits a labourer riding a bicycle and he faces the wrath of the law.

If you are strong, know that you can be taken advantage of at any time so you must be vigilant and strategic as you protect yourself.

Avoid letting repetition stand in the way of creativity. Because a strategy worked for you in the past does not mean it will automatically work again.

Don’t make a doctrine out of a strategy, people adapt and plans become obsolete

What limits individuals as well as nations is the inability to confront reality, to see things as they are. The older we grow, the more we find ourselves rooted in the past or getting set in our ways.

You must consciously wage a mental war against your past and all the negative memories, emotions and sentiments attached to it by building new memories in the present that are better and constructive.

-GSW-