Jealousy Limits Your Destiny II

I dislike talking about jealousy
When I see it in anyone, I distance myself from such a person
I have seen firsthand the destructive power it has over its victims
Not only in the way it twists their minds and contorts their ability to reason, but also in the way it rules over their bodies.
I have seen people who claim to be in love get so jealous that they kill the person they claimed to love.
In some other instances, I have seen the so-called jealous person become so imprisoned by this emotion that he or she loses the rest of mind, peace, and the ability to govern his or her body due to jealousy.

A friend claims she cannot stand disloyalty in her friends, and no friend of hers must ever have any form of conversation with someone she loves in her absence
To her, loving someone gives her the exclusive right to the person’s space and time, and no other person who is regarded as her friend should ever cross that line
On the surface, this seems reasonable until she was going to clock 30 and her fiancé decided to throw a surprise party for her
In order for the surprise party idea to work out, the fiancé needed to work hand in glove with her best friend of over twenty years
Ironically, she was the one who tacitly suggested the idea of a surprise party to her fiancé, claiming she wished her friends or colleagues at the office would throw one for her
She suddenly noticed that her boyfriend’s pattern of behaviour deviated from the norm
He would tell her he had a meeting on days he usually would be free, and he would pick up calls away from her vicinity
The entire deviation lasted about a month
She knew her fiancé was keeping a secret from her and automatically assumed he was having an affair
One day, she decided to play James Bond in order to discover what he was up to
She tailed him to a restaurant and saw with her two eyes that he was meeting with her best friend
She stewed in this sight for hours, considering many scenarios and permutations
She noticed that most of the time her fiancé had been missing, or on a call, her friend had also not been available
She concluded her boyfriend had been cheating on her with her best friend
Once she reached this conclusion, the next step for her was retaliation
She needed to teach both parties a lesson
She somehow got her hands on a bucket of acid and poured it on her best friend just three days before her birthday party
She also poisoned freshly made watermelon and left it in her boyfriend’s fridge, knowing he would drink it long after she had prepared it and then die.
She did this on the 16th of July, 2025.
Thank God for the power of the Holy Spirit that arrested the acid and limited its impact on the spot
Thank God for the medical help that came swiftly, and the help and support of believers who rallied to help financially so that the right chemicals were used to neutralize the impact of the acid within an hour of the incident
Thank God for the swift arrest of the jealous friend by the Holy Spirit, which led to her quick remorse when she was told what had been going on.
The fiancé was informed about the poisoned drink in his fridge before he could take it

Now she is in police custody
Her family members were unable to sleep all night because they needed to beg their friend and her family members not to press charges
They needed to beg the pastor of both friends to intervene using the spirit of God to help them set free someone who allowed herself to become consumed by a dark spirit of destruction
Her family members were claiming mental exhaustion and begging that she will get therapy
She didn’t consider her future and the future of the two people she claimed to have loved the most in the world, whose lives she decided to take because she is a “jealous” person
Some people think jealousy is something they should be flattered about in their partners
They don’t know it is a strange fire that could cost them their destinies

Someone said the opposite of jealousy is apathy
Apathy is a state of indifference and lack of feeling, emotion, interest, or concern
The person is very wrong
Jealousy is being possessive, suspicious, envious, domineering, controlling, invidious, mistrustful, jaundiced, overprotective, insecure and selfish love.
The opposite of jealousy is selfless love; it is undemanding, uncontrolling, trustful, understanding, generous, kind, benevolent, charitable, kind-hearted, well-meaning, altruistic, freeing, and liberating.
True love has become so scarce nowadays, most people treat investing their emotions in another person the way they treat investing their money in a ponzi scheme
If you save your money in a bank with all the right insurances and certifications, you usually go to sleep with your two eyes closed
When you invest in a scheme that you know can crash at any time, you lose your peace
Most people do not find that peace and trusting devotion in love anymore
Love has become a prison, and the beloved is the warden of the prison
We live in an era where checking each other’s phones and eavesdropping on conversations have become the norm
There are apps now meant to feed our jealousy by granting us access to our partner’s phones, messages, and chats so that we can monitor them for our peace of mind
I remember discussing with a “wife” once and asking her why she was checking her husband’s messages daily
She said she believes it is the right thing to do, and she can never stop doing it
She and her husband are divorced now
Not because he cheated, but because her paranoia made her unstable and scared her husband into abandoning the marriage
As I write this, there is a 29-year-old in police custody, her future has already been coloured by Jealousy, and there is another 29-year-old in the hospital battling for her life, while there is a 32-year-old man who spent the whole night crying and regretting trying to put together a surprise party for his babe.
We all should learn a lesson from this and eschew jealousy completely
If you can’t love freely, you need not love at all.

PS: We were able to raise some support for the treatment of the sister in the hospital
The burns and damages were mostly towards her scalp and back
She is still taking treatment, and every support we can get still counts
If you are led to help, please send me a message on +2348072744871 WhatsApp or on Twitter DM
I ask that we all learn a lesson from this
Pay attention to your emotions
If you notice you are a jealous person, resist that spirit fiercely
Make it a part of your declaration from the place of conviction
I am a product of love, I love freely, and I am worthy of love without any form of encuberance
I love selflessly, as God has always loved me from the beginning
Blessed Be God.