Pathways to Misery

The man had been married twice, and on both occasions, the marriage ended because he was proven not to have the ability to father children

This was not proven medically

It was proven through traditional consultations with some clerics

He was of a religion where clerics provide guidance to members of their fellowship in times of great crisis

He asked the clerics what he should do in order to become a father in this life

He was told he would need to marry a young girl, not a virgin, but a young lady of a certain age from a certain family tree

It was a tough deal

His business was struggling, and the little money he had saved over the years had gone into the business of having a child.

He was already in his forties

He went to the family line that was shown to him, and indeed, they had a daughter who fitted into his plans.

The challenge was how to convince her that she should marry him

She was in her early twenties, and she was quite heady in a way

She was also a Christian

He humbled himself and approached the young lady's family

He scraped together every form of goodies he could lay his hands upon just so that she could grant him audience

He told her he loved her and that he wanted to marry her

He promised her heaven and earth

He begged and pleaded until she listened and began to consider his plea

He worked on her mother, told her that her daughter could practice any religion she wanted

He also promised to set her up in business and be her pillar for life

His pleas eventually persuaded the lady, and she got married to him

As he was told, she got pregnant soon after their wedding

She even delivered a set of triplets

However, the wife noticed that his attention shifted drastically towards the children after they were born

All the promises he made went unfulfilled

The more he prospered, the more she felt he just married her for the sake of having children rather than for the sake of truly loving her

She called him and tried to discuss her pain with him, but he didn't hear her

She noticed that rather than talk to her, he would talk to her mother (They were very close in age and communicated at almost the same frequency), her mother then tried to explain his position or thoughts to her

Her husband felt she was too heady and insubmissive

She felt he was a liar and a user who got what he wanted out of the marriage and stopped caring about her and her well-being.

She said he wanted to reduce her to a slave who would be catering to his needs as well as those of the children, while her own dreams of becoming something in life would be neglected until they die.

She finished her degree and master's under his roof, despite all his protestations, and she also worked and started a business

Her husband insisted that as long as she was providing for her and the children, she should not complain about anything

He forgot she was a young bride, and she also needed attention

All his attention was devoted to his work and the welfare of the children; whatever was left focused on her shortcomings.

They fought a lot, and eventually she left the marriage.

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She was married to a medical doctor in Ibadan. The man was previously married with two children, but he lost his wife to a ghastly motor accident.

She was a beautician and a hairdresser with her own flourishing business located in Bodija Estate.

He saw her one day as she was crossing the road to her business center, and he parked his car

He followed her, and they began to talk

She got married to him six months later

He was true to his word to her in every way

She got married into wealth, and the full measure of the pampering abilities her husband's wealth could offer her

She travelled all over the world with him, and he never gave her a moment of regret for coming into her life

However, despite everything she tried, she couldn't get pregnant

Medical and spiritual intervention failed for fifteen years

Her husband was not bothered (She felt this was because he had two children from his previous marriage)

She would cry every month at the sight of her period, and her husband would console her in his own way

She felt unfulfilled as a woman

She really wanted to have her own children

The closer she got to age forty, the more desperate she got

Eventually, she met a diviner who said, "You are living in a palace, enjoying royal treatment and a full dose of pampering, but as long as you live that life, you will never be a mother.

Your child is in the refuse dump, and you must descend into this dump before you can ever become a mother."

She asked the diviner what "refusing dump meant, and she was told it was a place of shame and reproach."

A week later, she started an extramarital affair with a man who would usually come to her shop with different kinds of women he was having sexual relationships with

A very well-known womanizer who wears his sexual indiscipline like a badge of honor (That was the refuse dump)

She was the one who sought him out, and she started splashing money on him

Within a month, she was pregnant

She moved out of the palace into his two-bedroom apartment

He thought she had some money stashed away, but she didn't

All the cars and the free money she used to entertain and keep the womanizer’s attention were left in the palace

The womanizer realized she wasn't independently rich, and he began to treat her like a nuisance

Sometimes he would beat her up mercilessly, especially when she dared to ask him where he was coming from or for the upkeep of their baby.

She said she just wanted to become a mother, and she was willing to upend her life in order to achieve that.

These two living and breathing people have now been fully restored by the Holy Spirit to their rightful positions in life.

The woman who married an unloving husband has now reconciled with him and his children

The Lord has restored the marriage, and her destiny has been sorted out in a great way.

The other lady who left the palace for a refuse dump has left the refuse dump.

Her shops, which closed down due to a lack of funds, were reopened

She stepped into business in a big way and now owns chains of businesses all over Nigeria

The turnaround took two years, but it was done by the Spirit of Jesus.

Glory be to God.

PS: The two examples above are realities of those who consult mediums, clerics, spiritualists, and other demonic sources when looking for a solution to their challenge.

The blessings of God make one rich and add no sorrow

When you see sorrow hanging around a supposed blessing, know that the source of such a blessing is not pure.

Those who find themselves in these kinds of situations can still come to God in the place of prayer and Spirit-led counsel so that their crooked paths might be made straight

Decisions made through demonic counsel would often place one in an unfavorable alternate reality.

God is an expert at flipping people out of such realities into their rightful positions in life

David, Joseph, Moses, Gideon, Mary, Elizabeth were all great examples of this divine realignment by the Spirit of God.

We are coming to Lagos on Friday, 19th December, to cause some serious realignments by the Spirit of Jesus.

David, Joseph, Moses, Gideon, Mary, and Elizabeth were all great examples of this divine realignment by the Spirit of God.