Christian Sister's Code

Christian Sister's Code

 

1. A sis should be Godly and trustworthy

 

2. A sis should set healthy boundaries and respect other people’s boundaries.

 

3. Don’t drag or shade your sis just to impress anyone.

 

4. A sis should not pay for s*x or transactional affection either cash or kind.

 

5. Marry before you make babies — secure the man first, don’t baby-trap yourself.

 

6. Never despise the days of little beginnings in your relationships. Make efforts to grow and evolve together.

 

7. Don't do wife duties while you're just a girlfriend without marriage in view. (stop cooking full course and warming his bed)

 

8. A sis never gives up, she prays, she rests, cries if needed, then continues stronger.

 

9.  Never sleep with another sister’s man.

 

10. Share fun times and document great moments in pictures and videos. You will love them later.

 

11. A sis should never wear dirty or torn underwear at any time (Your confidence down there is paramount).

 

12. Take care of your body and dress well. Smell fresh and clean always.

 

13. Stand up for and support each other in every way - spiritually, morally, physically and financially.

 

14. Pray for one another.

 

15. Celebrate little wins and don’t stop taking up new challenges.

 

16. A sister must endeavor to be financially stable. Making her own money ensuring she’s not a burden to anyone.

 

17. A sis must be introspective and seek feedback for continued growth.

 

18. A sis must have a mentor and older friends, that she can learn from and be accountable to.

 

19. Checking on one another is expedient, no one has the responsibility to check first, any of you can.

 

20. In times of arguments or disagreements never bring up the past. Let the past remain in the past.

 

21. Never allow disagreements to linger, ensure and let it be apparent that you have forgiven and moved on. (Sisters don’t keep malice no matter what)

 

Written by (Omotayo Ndaksson)

Dr Love

 

 

-GSW-