The Key To Your Destiny

At 16, you impregnated somebody. You had to drop out of school to work so you could support the baby.

At 19, your baby was three, and his mother had been encouraged to leave the baby with her parents and continue her education.

As soon as you are free of her and the baby, you got another lady pregnant instead of returning to school.

You worked as a petrol attendant for another four years, caring for this lady and the baby.

The lady won the American visa lottery with you as a dependent

Suddenly, you find yourself in the United States of America.

You get to the USA, and the lady says to you, I have had enough of you. Find your path in this country and live your life.

You are free again at the age of 25.

You can work, train yourself through school, or earn a skill that would enhance your productivity.

Your whole life was ahead of you.

But...

You got another lady pregnant and stayed with her for another ten years while raising two children and working three jobs.

One day, this lady looked at you and realized this is the best you will ever be in life.

She wanted more, and she called it quits.

She said she was better off as a single mother collecting food stamps and welfare support from the government than being with a man working three jobs who was a faithful partner, but whose best could barely pay the rent.

Now you are thirty-five, and you are free again.

No official marriage or alimony, or child support claims had been filed against you.

You have four children already, and even though you are in America, you are earning peanuts.

You had the option of going to school, learning a skill, and redefining yourself.

You were literally in the land of opportunities.

You met another woman; this time you got married to her and lived with her for fourteen years.

The marriage produced two daughters.

The woman was a successful lawyer who was earning big

You didn’t have to pitch in a penny

She registered the children with her maiden name

She was a feminist, and you were the right kind of male that fitted into her plan.

On the day you clocked 49.

She told you your services were no longer needed.

She gave you a document to sign with the promise that if you sign it, you will be settled with 100,000 dollars to walk away and not contact the children anymore, but if you decide not to sign the divorce document and take up the case in court, she would fight you with everything she has and ensure you lose.

You considered your options and decided by yourself that it is better to walk away

You signed and got your big payday

One of the requirements of the document you signed was that you must leave the state where you both lived and raised the children, and settle down far away from the woman and your children

So, you moved to another state

You told yourself it was time to start afresh

You landed in another city. The plan was to rebuild and make something tangible of your life in preparation for your old age

You met with a pastor, and you joined his church

In the course of the service, you received two distinctive prophecies

The first was that God has brought you to your place of enlargement and your streams of renewal

The second was that you must build up your strength as Jacob did at Bethel and grow your capacity in the place of meditation and aloneness, and you shall experience the prosperity of the Lord in terms of material wealth and fortune beyond your wildest dreams, with which you would live a life of rest in your old age

You didn’t share anything with anybody

You know the prophecy came from a pure source, and it was really addressed to you

The following day, while at the supermarket to get some groceries, you met a lady

You knew her from one of your online Nigerian communities and didn’t know she lived in that city

You spent some time chatting with her, and somehow, she ended up in your bed and “fell” pregnant

Even at fifty, you fell into the same pattern you have been falling into since you were sixteen

You have been with the woman for ten years, and you have three children with her

You have since spent your payoff from the last relationship on bills and life

At sixty, you began to wonder why the promise of God towards you has not come to pass

You remember the prophecy that came from a pure source that the land is a stream of renewal unto you

You could testify to the renewal because you were able to build a family as soon as you arrived, but what about the wealth, the prosperity, the abundance, the fortune that would surround you as you grow old?

Has God lied?

You have been faithful in the place of service and worship in the church

You are known as a dedicated worshipper, and you have even been ordained an elder in the church

Why have God’s promises failed?

The fulfilment of the prophecies and the promise of God is not based on long hours of prayer and how much one fears God or worships God.

They are based on obedience.

When Abraham met the Lord, he was given instructions like "Get out of this land and go to a land I will show you.”

Imagine that Abraham didn't leave Ur of the Chaldees but decided to build the biggest temple in the world in honor of the God that appeared to him.

Imagine that Abraham prayed to that God, day and night, and offered great offerings and sacrifices, but refused to leave Ur of the Chaldees.

Would his submission to obedience satisfy God?

Would giving God one million dollars while refusing to do what God said one should do be enough to persuade God to change his mind and give us what we want or desire outside of obedience?

God promised to make Abraham the father of nations.

Would he become the father of nations in Ur of the Chaldees? A nation that was already established according to the old ways of life, with its own culture, tradition, and language?

OBEDIENCE is always better than sacrifice.

Imagine Moses, meeting with God at that burning bush and experiencing the power of God the way he did, only to stay in Midian because he wanted to hear the news of the death of Pharaoh first...

"I know what God told me to do, but there is a right time for everything, and if Pharaoh is still in power, then I fear this must be the wrong time.

I have a warrant out for my arrest, and the statute of limitations on murder is forever. I would be foolish to go to Egypt now. I am not going.... "

Imagine that!

Imagine that you are that Christian who grew up with a pattern of behavior that is bad for your destiny, and you have been praying to God to help you become somebody in life, but you refuse to let go of this pattern of behavior...

PS: Dear sir, I listened to the detailed voice note you sent to me and decided to help you reorganize your story from my perspective. That way, you can easily see where things went wrong and, if possible, make some serious adjustments.

If we are living our lives in a certain pattern, and God asks us to change that pattern, it is always for a good reason and to our own benefit

We cannot serve God on our terms.

Only religious people do this, and it leads them down a path of ignorance and self-righteousness

We serve God by obeying his instructions as we are guided by the Holy Spirit daily

Where you erred was in the place of obedience

When God said wait upon me in the place of “meditation and aloneness.”

You didn’t, sir.

You met another lady and got entangled with her the very next day

By dismissing that instruction, you skipped a chapter of your journey that would have redefined your life and changed your story

You continued down the same old path, and the guarantee that you brings is that you will get the same result as you have gotten in the past

Is it too late to open that chapter now?

I believe that while there is life, there is still hope

You can still find yourself at the center of God’s will by obeying his instructions in the place of meditation, prayer, and studying the word of God

I recommend that you join PSSBC and spend the next three months in the place of obedience

https://chat.whatsapp.com/EUtoewkLEK83bgulmAx63g?mode=gi_t

The class will help you kickstart things, and from there, we trust the Lord to lead you into a place of fulfilment.

If you are reading this and you find yourself seeking the place of destiny fulfilment through the word and by the Spirit of God, you should join in.

Registration closes on Friday, 10th April 2026

God bless you.

-GSW-