Budding Rods

Why do husbands assume that their wives will not freely have sexual intercourse with them unless they ask or demand?

It sounds very strange to me that this is the mindset of the majority of the men who reacted to my earlier post on husbands not demanding sex.

I think a lot of young men have been brainwashed to assume that "wives" don't like sexual intercourse, and they must somehow demand it from her before they can get it.

This mindset also made a lot of wives treat having sexual intercourse with their husbands as if they were doing him a favour.

It is not good for the mindset of a man to find himself at the mercy of his own wife for sexual satisfaction.

I have never been able to think like that all my life.

It is also not healthy for a wife to be able to think, "I will punish him by not sleeping with him" if he offends me.

The suggestions I saw under my post are unacceptable; one being to deny the wife upkeep money or money in general, and the second, which is to cheat on the wife.

They are basically unnecessary.

Someone said most women have low libido, and another said the majority of women won't willingly come to their own husbands to initiate sex or to ask for it.

It makes me wonder what the dynamics of most marriages we have nowadays are

It is either that the men do not know how to make love to their wives the right way, so the wives see coitus as a chore, or that most of the men are thirty-second men.

Wives do not feel the need to make love to a man who just satisfies himself on the bed and then sleeps off.

A woman can never resist a man who knows how to make love for more than two days. You know what it feels like to have your favorite ice cream in the fridge while watching your weight...

That is what it feels like when a man is capable!

The wife will make the bed from 6 pm and shower by 9 pm.

If by 11 pm you are still working on your computer, she will literally come and drag you to bed.

Why would a man have to demand sex from his wife when he is a giver of irresistible pleasure? Why would a wife ever pretend to have a headache to dodge a good?

internal combustion that will set her whole being on fiery pleasure?

I have heard a lot of ladies say, "Sex is not a big deal to me or I don't like sex," only for them to marry the right man and stop wearing undies so that they can stay prepared.

I think our married men need to sincerely step up their game in the bedroom instead of resorting to cheap blackmail in order to get some pleasures off their wives.

A husband should never have to demand sex from his own wife, and a wife should not have to demand sex from her own husband.

If she sees herself not getting any pleasure from it, she might imagine it is not worth it and might have to be induced to give it to her own husband grudgingly.

I have never seen a husband who knows how to make love to his own wife demanding sex from her.

The sea will never resist the rod of Moses; it must part wilfully!

-GSW-