Things Remembered 2
He said: “I didn’t believe my luck
All the other ladies were dressed in a bikini and whatnot
She was dressed in a church outfit for a boat cruise
Her friends asked her why, she said she changed her mind at the last minute to come on the cruise
She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen
She came into the boat and sat right next to me
I got nervous; it was my first-ever boat cruise
It was my first ever time in the company of such folks
They were the A class of the society
I got invited by a friend I met in the course of my work
I am an up-and-coming movie director but I had done some good jobs and made a name for myself somehow
She was polite, calm, prim, and proper, a lady
We got talking, she knew me and yes, I knew her but we had never talked
She told me her name, I blushed and told her mine
She sensed my nervousness and smiled at me reassuringly
The boat cruise was a blur to me, I didn’t want it to end because that would mean she would go away
After the cruise, she said, ‘I am peckish, need to have a bite’
I was hearing that word for the first time…. “Peckish”
I said a friend was waiting for me at a restaurant
She said, ‘Can I come?’
We went together, in my car
She told her driver to drive behind us
We got to the restaurant, she met my friends and we ordered our food
She fitted in like gloves to hand, with no airs at all
She was so down to earth
As the day wound down, I summoned the courage to get her number
Her driver took her away
I sent a message that I enjoyed myself and would like us to do it again
She didn’t reply for two days
When she did, she said, “When and where?”
I called, she picked up, and it began
We were talking all day and all night, asking questions, laughing, sharing…
She said she knew me by reputation and didn’t want bloggers hounding her
She was popular in her own right and so was I
We struck a deal to keep it off the radar, to keep our friendship to ourselves
We couldn’t get enough of each other, it was meant to be
We met for a date and then I had to travel to a location for a shoot
Throughout the two weeks I spent on the location we were together day and night on the phone
Her voice started my day and ended it
I had fallen in love
I kept her all to myself, told nobody the reason for my joy
I got back to Abuja and asked for another date
She said, “The rate we are going, this won’t be an ordinary date”
I said, ‘I know’
She said, 'Go and do STD comprehensive test pls, I am on my way to do mine
I jumped into the car
She was on the phone as I did mine and I was on the call as she did hers
I knew what was coming
It was inevitable She sent her test result to me and I did the same
She said, “This weekend, somewhere private” I booked a room at a resort, sent her the location
She said, ‘Friday morning, I have online meetings but I’d do them from the location
I got there as early as I could, I was waiting in the parking lot when she arrived
I couldn’t believe she didn’t change her mind
She got in the room and set up her laptop just in time
I kept pinching myself
She was for real
I listened in on the meeting, watched her do “boss lady” for about an hour
The meeting ended
I wanted to walk toward her, I found myself walking away,
She said, ‘What are you doing?’
I said, “I want to be sure you want this”
She said, ‘Meaning what?’
I said, “I am shy”
She said, “Come here this instant”
I flew
I had never been in love before, at least not this way
I wasn’t a man trying to be with a woman
I was a heart syncing with another with joy
We talked afterward
She asked questions, and I answered
We talked and talked and talked all night, sharing, laughing, loving, crying
I had found my Garden of Eden
I just had to keep the serpent away
We didn’t know how to stop
I remember one day I didn’t call her at 6 am as I used to, she called and said, ‘This one you are not calling me again’
I said, “We slept by 2 am, I didn’t want to wake you up’ She said “For you, sleep will wait” I learned her love languages and I taught her mine
We were in each other’s arms every weekend from that first day, learning, growing, loving, crying together, and sometimes having those lovers spat
She was perfect for me, I was perfect for her
She would say, “Relax, I am not going anywhere” I’d say, “If you run, I’d pursue”
Sometimes I’d leave her in the room and take a walk to clear my head
Sometimes she would do the same
The trick was not to be seen together so that we don’t become cannon fodder for gossip columns
We knew we would have to come out of the shadows eventually but we should let love
marinate
One day she said, “Is this just a sex thing? Because I feel if you do anything now, I don’t know anyone I can talk to about it and you don’t know anyone you can talk to about me too, like a support system
Someone who can intervene in case we lose our heads
I said, ‘We will get there’
I wanted to shout about our relationships on rooftops all over the world
We made plans to travel together to Dubai first, then Italy, then the USA in that order
I had traveled to the Maldives once
She had been all over the world
I applied for my visa immediately
Where she went, I was determined to go
She said she was ready to be seen in public with me
I said OKAY, and made plans
I even prayed
I didn’t want us to put our first foot in the river and find it swallowed whole by a crocodile We went to a Friday Night event It was a huge success
What a night it was!
I called my father the next day and told him about her
She spoke with him too
She asked me why I hadn’t told my Mum
I said once I did that, we will have to get married
My mother raised her sons to be responsible
I didn’t have the guts to tell her unless she was sure we were ready!
She said she would test the waters, tell her sister and see…
She came from a very elitist background, I was the son of a teacher
My mother is a retired nurse
She was very down to earth with me but I sense her family needed to be eased into things
I was not in a hurry
All I wanted was her
I will take her with or without a marriage
I will elope with her if I have to
I love her and she loves me
That was all that mattered
I remember driving her home that Sunday evening
As soon as she alighted from my car, I knew something was wrong from her countenance
I knew!
As I drove home, she didn’t call
For the first time, she was not in my ears
I called but her number was busy
When I got home, she called and said, ‘I saw my father’s car in the compound and I knew he wasn’t supposed to be around, yet I sensed that my sister had told him about us and he came around to address the issue
I was not mentally prepared for a confrontation, so I sneaked into the house and he was waiting
Then she called me by my name in a serious tone
She said, “This can’t go on, I am sorry”
Wow! Brother Gbenga, help me out
Please tell her to please remember
To remember her promise
To remember my commitment
To remember my love
To remember my tears
To forgive my mistakes
Tell her to fight for us,
to stand up for this
Tell her it has been three months and the pain is as strong as ever
Tell her I am asking for a second chance!
-GSW-
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