Randy

=It is hard to be married to a 
man of the world 
A man who lived for pleasure 
A man who lived for self 
Especially when such a man 
is self made 
An iconic success story 
Handsome and rich 
A man who owes no one, 
not even the society any 
form of allegiance or responsibility 
Her man!
Her man was every woman's dream 
Her man was every wife's nightmare 
He was a serial cheat 
But he was not a careless 
cheat 
He used a condom always, 
he ate well and had his 
exercise routine 
He was a powerful man 
And it is about power
For him there was a thrill
to be sought
A conquest to be had
He an aura of royalty 
He was born and bred 
in the UK 
He had finesse
They met when she was in 
her mid-twenties 
He was already a high flier 
in the financial world 
She was just writing her 
ICAN examination 
She went to his firm to see 
a friend who promised to 
help her get a job 
He was driving out as she 
was walking in 
The moment he saw her 
He parked his car!
That was his flaw 
He loved beauty and would 
do anything to have 
beautiful things 
He had the money 
She was in the reception 
when he caught up with her 
He smiled and told her he 
had to park when he saw 
her walking into the firm 
Wow! 
That opening was plucked
right out of her imagination
She had watched the 
"Joy girl" advert as a child
 and loved it 
The way the lady in the 
advert caused commotion 
everywhere with her beauty 
was an obsession with her 
She wanted to be that girl 
He made that dream come 
true 
He had worship in his eyes 
She knew he was smitten 
She melted
He was eleven years older 
than her 
He had everything 
She was the missing piece 
of the puzzle 
His beauty queen! 
Of course, she knew he had 
an obsession with perfection 
He had acquired cars, 
wristwatches, paintings, 
artifacts, designer clothes 
and so on 
It was a statement of his 
wealth
It was also a statement of 
how he would most likely 
treat her 
Like one of his acquisitions! 
She saw the signs 
But she convinced herself 
she was Intelligent and 
would make him see that
she was no bimbo! 
Everybody in her family l
oved him 
There was nothing to object 
to about him
It's like objecting to a 
gift of a billion dollars 
Even a fool would think 
twice 
His family members were 
deliriously happy 
He was finally getting 
married after all the 
pleas and admonitions 
The wedding was a class act 
He had the best of everything 
All the who is whos were 
there
It was a good thing she was 
also from a rich background 
It made her fit into wealth 
easily 
They had a good understanding 
They also had mutual respect 
But the one thing he lacked 
was faithfulness 
He went to work 
Went to the club 
Did what every other rich dude 
did 
And slept around
He was careful at first 
But she was smart 
He tried to hide it 
But she was a born sniffer 
She caught him all the time 
He would apologize 
She would forgive 
He would promise to change 
And then he would do it again! 
That was the cycle! 
At a point, she had to accept it 
She had to!
It was driving her insane
She was always looking at the
mirror
Trying to be finer for him
Feeling as if it was her fault
that he had to sleep with other
ladies
She started hating other ladies
suspecting every lady
Misbehaving to every lady
Losing her confidence
Becoming depressed
Losing her mind
By this time she had delivered 
her third child and only son 
She went for tests regularly 
to be sure he had no infected 
her with anything 
The test results were always negative 
The ladies he slept with 
were always young ladies 
from a very neat and stable
background
He kept far away from 
prostitutes
He did only the cream
girls
 For him it was not a problem 
He only saw it as enjoying 
his life
Even though she grudgingly accepted it 
And he also had the effrontery 
to say "It is not a threat to you, 
it is just pleasure" 
She was angry 
What else was she supposed 
to do? 
She had children for him 
She was a good wife 
She tried as much as 
possible to keep herself 
trim and shapely
He never denied her sex 
or returned home claiming 
he was too tired 
But she couldn't remove 
the image of him being with 
other ladies from her mind 
She told him she would cheat 
too 
He told her to go-ahead 
He was the powerful one and 
he knew it If she cheated, 
he would throw her out
She knew this 
He was that ruthless 
He made sure she had 
everything 
She was the queen of his 
kingdom 
But she had to swallow 
the fact that her "King" had 
his harem of beautiful women 
which must be a part of his 
royal reality! 
She contemplated divorcing 
him 
She knew would lose big 
time!
They lived in a country where 
the best she would get would 
be feeding allowance and 
upkeep allowance for her children! 
Her husband is wealthy and influential 
She had to thrash the idea 
One day, her husband 
traveled to Abuja for a meeting 
The children were in the 
boarding school
It was the week of his 
birthday 
She decided to go to Abuja 
and spend some time with 
him 
She also planned to organize 
a surprise party for him in 
Abuja 
When she got to their 
apartment 
She let herself in 
She saw him with one of 
his sluts 
What! 
He had always kept them 
in hotels
Why would he bring this 
one home? 
Who was she? 
Was she a second wife? 
Was she that important? 
In their apartment, 
She had suppressed her 
insecurity and fears for 
long time 
But everything bubbled up 
She ran towards them 
Before he could say "Stop" 
She had flung herself at 
the girl
He had never seen her 
like that before 
She battered the girl and 
threw her out naked! 
Then she descended on him 
He had been restraining her 
She bit him until she drew 
blood 
She destroyed his phone 
She destroyed all the 
sex enhancement pills and 
sex stuff she found in the 
house
She went mad for about 
two hours! 
When he saw that he 
couldn't control her he 
left the house 
She followed him, yelling 
and throwing stuff at his car 
They lived in an estate 
Her behavior made him the 
subject of rumors 
She made him a laughing stock 
She dented his pristine image
He lodged in a hotel from 
that day 
One day, one month, one year 
He refused to return home 
He said she had mental 
issues and he cannot live 
with a madwoman
She had a case but as time 
went on he was the one w
She begged and called and 
cried 
He just stayed away!
She knew she couldn't
continue to live in a limbo
Should she wait?
Should she be proactive
and sue for divorce first?
Should she just walk away or 
wait or keep begging him 
to come back?
She reached out to the
brother in Jeans and T-shirt
What should i do?
She said "I want him saved!
It is not only about my
marriage
It is about the father of
my children
I want him to know the Lord
He is a good man
He has a kind heart
I have tried to lead him
to the Lord several times
But he always dismisses
it
Maybe because it was
coming from me
He always acted as if
God was not a factor 
I know the moment he gets
to know the Lord, his life
would change"
Is there a way the Holy Spirit
can touch my husband?
Please...
The Brother in Jeans and T-shirt
told her to agree with him in
prayer
There is a certain storm a 
believer can generate
through spiritual understanding
and the power of the Holy Spirit!
It is called a Contending storm
The type of storm Jonah 
encountered when he was
heading away from the location
God gave him!
The type of storm Apostle Paul
encountered on the road to
Damascus!
When we release such a storm
we do not do so for the purpose
of destruction or death!
We do so shake an individual's
reality and help such evaluate
their priorities!
It is not a pleasant experience
But it is worthwhile all the
time because the result is
always a hundred percent
accurate!
The person's course changes
like the course of Jonah
changed!
He told her once the storm 
was generated, she should
be willing to show her husband
love and care
She should let him see Christ in
her!
She agreed!
They prayed!
Eight weeks later
Her husband called her
He had been seeing blood
whenever he urinated 
Doctors told him to watch
his blood pressure
Then he became hypertensive
Then it became a kidney issue
Then they found a growth
on his heart
They called it cardiac tumors
The doctors told him how serious
it was
He was scheduled for a surgery
in the United Kingdom
He was told he could die
He had to settle his affairs
She listened to him and
encouraged him to return
home
They got a private nurse
He returned home
He was depressed and 
unhappy
He hated being sick and having
to check his vitals all the time
He was weak and frail
She invited the Brother in
Jeans and T-shirt to pray
for him
Of course, the storm was 
initiated from the Pneuma
There is a passage in Isaiah 
that activated it
The Brother in Jeans and
T-shirt told her husband about
Jesus!
He said "If I pray for you, you will
suddenly feel a glow within
and your stillness in your 
spirit. 
Your breathing will return to
normal, the heart palpitation
will stop and you will steadily
grow stronger from within!
Her husband was desperate
He accepted Jesus Christ as
Lord and saviour
The Brother in Jeans and T-shirt
laid hands on him and 
commanded the storm to cease!
His heart started slowing
down until it went back to
normal!
His face brightened and his
hands steadied!
He felt life returning to his
body
His face cracked into a smile
Jesus healed him!
Hallelujah!
Within a week he was back
on his feet
He traveled to the United
kingdom as planned
His health had been fully
restored!
He became a believer
At the age of 65!
He learned to love the 
Lord, love his wife and
treasure his family!
This event happened in
2015
Its been four years and 
he has remained faithful
even as he looks forward
to his 70th birthday 
celebrations with his family
Ps: There are several layers
of perception
I decided to be candid about
some spiritual truths here
I could have coded them
But the undiscerning will
never see the right things
So i know the obvious is
safe!