The Infidel

They were at a vigil when the issue came 
to light
The pastor of the church heard the 
testimony of one of the men of the church 
earlier that week and decided to allow 
him to share with the brethren
The man took the microphone and 
explained how he had survived for 
two years without a job!
As soon as he said "Without a job" the 
congregation gasped!
It was impossible to even contemplate 
that the man was out of a job for a 
second
He always dressed corporately and 
drove a good car
Everybody saw him as one of the 
gainfully employed members of the 
church
The man explained further that a 
week after he lost his job in a stock 
brokering firm, his wife found him 
crying and promised him she would 
ensure his shame was covered
The man said at the end of every month, 
his wife would hand over her ATM card 
to him and they would both go shopping 
for the family and for themselves
She knew he would eventually catch a 
break but she was determined not to 
let him suffer simply because times 
were hard
The man talked on and on about his wife's 
support and love
While the talk was going on, the 
assistant pastor watched the man 
with awe
When the man was done, a lady raised 
up her hand in the congregation
She said she wanted to ask a question
She was the assistant pastor's wife
When she was given the microphone, 
she said she didn't see any wisdom in 
what the man's wife did
She said she believed hunger is a strong 
motivator for success
If you feed a jobless man and make him 
feel comfortable, he will assume all him 
well and dump the responsibility of the 
marriage on the wife
He who did not work, should not eat
It was a principle she learnt from 
her mother
It was a principle that she had discovered 
to be tested and proven
As far as she was concerned, what 
happened with the man and his wife 
was just luck
The lady's comment caused an uproar 
in the church
Her husband (The Assistant pastor) just 
lost his job and had confided 
the pastor about the way his wife was 
treating him at home
The pastor didn't want the wife to know 
the husband had reported and decided 
to use the testimony to educate her on 
how to treat her husband in such a time
Her response was not taken lightly by 
many in the church others 
raised up their hands and contributed
Some even insulted her tacitly for being 
so myopic
After the vigil, she told her husband he 
would have to leave the house she paid 
for unless he got something doing
The people talking thrash in the church 
have never walked a mile in her shoes 
She was not brought up to feed a 
grown man
She cannot be labouring while a man would 
be watching TV hoping to catch a break
Her older brother didn't have a job too but 
he got involved in the illegal oil bunkering 
business at Ikorodu
He was a graduate who did not mind 
getting his hands dirty
Her brother was making between ten and 
twenty thousand Naira daily
He was feeding himself and increasing his 
savings daily
Why couldn't her husband get into the oil 
bunkering too?
Her husband said he was a pastor and 
that it was illegal
She said he should move out of 
the house
The bible says "A man who cannot provide 
for his own household is worse than an 
infidel
It was a fierce battle
Her husband caved in and called her 
brother
He joined the oil bunkering business
Whatever he made daily, he dropped on 
the dining table without touching a kobo 
He did the bunkering business for seven 
months
Eventually, soldiers were deployed by the 
federal government to stop the bunkering 
and he had to return home
Two weeks after he returned home, his 
wife's brother started an internet fraud 
scheme
He was glad his wife didn't invite him 
to join her brother
After a few weeks, the brother had to 
collect some money from the bank 
(from the people he had scammed) and 
his wife volunteered him as the person 
who should pick up the cash
He protested but his wife and her brother 
told him the money was sent in his name 
He had to do it
It was the scariest day of his life
He thought he was going to be arrested 
and whisked away to jail every minute 
until he got out of the bank
When he got home, he went on his knees 
and prayed
"O God! Please, arise for my help! I dont 
want to do this anymore!" 
Two days later he got a very good job
At the end of the first month on the job, 
he collected his salary and gave everything 
to his wife
He thanked her for standing by him when 
things were tough
His wife was overjoyed!
Finally, they had gotten to a good place
One week later, he 
left home and didn't return
His wife waited for three days before 
reporting at the police station
When she called the pastor to inform her, 
the pastor told her he just finished speaking 
with her husband
The pastor called the husband and asked 
him where he was
The husband said he 
has moved out of the apartment and the 
marriage
The pastor was shocked
The wife was shocked too
She said they didn't have any fight or 
disagreement
The pastor called for a meeting
They met at the pastor's house that 
evening
The Husband told the pastor what she 
made him do during 
his trying time
He had started smoking and drinking 
(An habit he picked up while bunkering oil)
He had carried a lot of guilt and resentment 
in his heart towards God and his wife
He said he felt like Esau, who sold his 
birthright for a morsel of bread
He said he felt like Adam 
who ate the forbidden fruit and the 
bidding of his wife
He said he felt like King Ahab, who 
was prompted by Jezebel to provoke God
The pastor couldn't believe everything 
his assistant was confessing to
At the end of the meeting, the pastor's 
assistant had resigned and left both 
the pastor and his wife grasping at straws

PS: It took the brother five years 
to return to Christ
He never returned to the marriage
His wife remarried after waiting 
for three years
He remarried in 2018 and has a daughter
He said she made him do things 
that made him hate himself 

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