Scum from Where?

When I was 6, my dad's younger 
sister living with us will take me into
 the bathroom (lie me on her chest) 
and make me suck her breast while 
she relaxes in the bathtub. 
I never told anyone because I enjoyed 
the feeling...
...But men are always the ones 
demonised for abusing girls and 
jailed for rape. 
It is not because the predators are 
mainly male, it is becausemost female 
predators don't leave physical 
scars as evidence of their evil. 
They damage guys psychologically 
and leave the carcass for others
When I was 16, I was raped by 
a 23 years old girl. 
She had been writing WAEC for seven 
years and failed every time. 
I was a young man who cleared GCE 
in SS2, she came on to me with all 
she had to manipulate me to help her 
out during the exam!...
I was a young undergraduate already 
and this "Aunty" is a neighbour's 
daughter. 
The mother asked my mother if she 
can be coming over so I can help her 
with her studies. 
My mother gladly agreed on my behalf 
and from coming over, it shifted to me 
going over to her house...
It took time but I eventually got the 
message and willingly went along 
with the "lesson sessions". 
A week to her exam, her mother 
called me and said they had bought 
two forms for her WAEC and arranged 
uniforms for me so that i can sit 
beside her in the exam hall...
...and help her write her papers. 
If i refuse to comply they have 
pictures of me sleeping with her
 and they will show it to my mother. 
My born again, tongue talking, 
WMU leader, choir leader mother! 
They did what they could, but the 
moment i left their house that day...
I stopped going home even for break. 
I couldn't believe a mother and
 daughter would gang up to corner 
me into committing examination 
malpractice. 
They told my Mum I raped the girl, 
my mum came to my school and 
I told her the truth. 
I have the exam card of the form 
they bought with me. 
I was supposed to attach my passport 
photograph to it and I tendered it 
as evidence. 
My mum believed me and that was 
all that mattered. 
These experiences thought me a 
great deal about the evil inherent in 
women whom I had grown up believing 
are "weaker vessels"
As an undergraduate, I was the 
Library-classroom-church -library type. 
I sometimes read for days without 
remembering to eat. 
I remember my first encounter with 
a campus babe, LB, who heard of 
my fantastic first sememster CGPA 
and wanted in on the act
I was reading in the library when 
she csme in, a beautiful lady with 
a slight limp. I was constantly checking
 the time so as not to miss my 1 pm '
lecture when she suddenly sat beside me, 
lifted up her skirt and said "Look". 
I did. 
But i wasn't looking with my eyes...
Another part of my body stood 
to attention and a warmness 
suddenly grew inside me. 
"Do you like what you see?" She said.
 If you will help me out with tests, 
tutorials and assignment, 
you can have it. 
All of it! 
She did this to me right in a 
crowded library. 
I missed that lecture!
How many other encounters like 
this would i recount? 
I am no Adonis, all I had was my good 
brain and good grades and i have 
had to fend off unwanted attention 
from all sorts of women. 
As I grew older, i have come to realize 
that human nature does not defer 
to gender!
Evil is evil regardless of colour, race, 
gender, religion, and other divides. 
A woman may damage a man and such 
a man may end up hurting many 
women as a result. 
Of course we can demonize the man
 all we want and treat women as victims. 
We will be deceiving ourselves!