Hawk Eyed Parenting

Hawk Eyed Parenting

I do not leave my boys 
alone with female house girls.
I know at least 30 guys 
who were introduced to sex by housemaids 
when they were between the 
age of 6 and 13.
I know what it means to be 
exposed to certain biological functions 
while the brain and emotions are still 

I have seen the damage 
and I have helped and counseled
too many not to pay attention to it.
I don’t just leave my daughter 
with female housemaids.

A friend once told me how 
a housemaid introduced her and her 
sisters to lesbianism when they were
still children aged between 7 and 13.
The housemaid will prepare foamy 
baths with Omo, make them sit in 
It two by two (they were 
four girls” and tell them 
to close their eyes. Then she 
will begin to touch them in 
sensitive areas under the cover 
of the foam waiting to see 
which of them reacts first.
The first to react to her 
touch is bounced out off the 
bathtub. It was a game 
of sorts until they all got 
into it and began to do stuff 
to each other within the house.
She said it was so bad that 
she would be rubbing herself against 
the edge of the wooden bed just 
to get an Orgasm at age 10.
Till today her parents had no 
idea what transpired. They are praying 
that God should settle their daughters 
in good marriages not knowing the housemaid 
had ruined their sexuality in many ways. 
Only one out of the four 
girls is married. The other two 
are abroad and they still tilt towards 
lesbianism while the one telling me 
the story preferred sex with benefits 
relationships because she has serious 
commitment issues.

There is a pastor in Ibadan who 
speaks a lot of good grammar and 
his wife owns a string of businesses 
including a travel agency and school.
Their daughters were victims of 
sexual abuse for years and the parents 
had no idea.

Paying attention is key to raising 
Our children the right way. 
Damaged people tend only to damage others 
so make sure you do your 
background check on the people 
you are bringing into your

Install CCTV camera in your house 
and make sure you build the 
kind of intimacy that surpasses fear 
in your children so that they 
report anything and everything to 
you without any fear. The internet is 
full of sick people giving counsel 
and forming disgust at the video
that trended yesterday.

Anyone who shared, posted, retweeted, 
liked, or downloaded that video is a 
pervert you should run away from. 
You should block and ensure that 
such a person does not come 
close to you and your family. 
I could never stomach such 
content and seeing many people asking 
that the video be sent to them 
Shows how many are here forming 
disgust when all they want
to do is watch the video to feed their 
imagination and perhaps even get aroused 
sexually by the content. 
This is what our society’s liberal 
learning brought forth.

You cannot outsource parenting.
You have to do better than paying 
fees and putting food on the table.
Charity indeed begins at home and 

without your input Charity will turn 
to a charade.

I have seen videos of parents allowing 
their children to drink alcohol at parties 
and even taking videos of it!

I have seen children smoking a cigarette 
and Shisha recorded on video as fun.

I have seen sex too, between minors. 
Was it not Bill Clinton that 
Introduced the teaching of masturbation 
to students in high school as a deterrent 
to premarital sex? You cannot trust 
the government or other entities to 
raise your child for you.
You must do it yourself.

That DNA of yours that is 
In that child must be taught 
how to fulfill its potential by you.
Remember this and adjust appropriately.